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I researching the subject of dating and getting your life back together after divorce, attended seminars, conventions, psychological meetings all over the country, and conducted classes on the subject myself for ten years. At each class I learned a lot from the experience of those in attendance. I have a library of over 200 books on the subject, as well as films and audio tapes. In addition, I have personal experience in running a dating service as well as friends and acquaintances who were in the business.

One of the books on the subject, The Mating Trade that the only dating service method that has any history of working successfully is those few operated by an individual, the old-fashioned match making who knows both parties.

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Once again, we will contend, despite your objection, that the history is that very few if any single women register and pay a dating service in A. and practically no men at all in E., but plenty of women. We won’t go into arguing about A. and E., though, and will suppose there are equal quantities of women in A. and some quantity of men in E. The point is that with a ten year age spread compatible with myself, as the client, the 500 (theoretically equally distributed) are down to 100 of my eligible age group. Half, if equally distributed, are the wrong sex. Now, there are 50 to match me up with. I won’t date anyone who outweighs me, and I contend an above average percentage of dating girls in dating services are overweight, but we’ll say only 19%. Now we are down to 55.

Show me one other person who ever thoroughly researched the subject who can or ever did honestly say that dating services work. The fatality rate each year of dating services going out of business alone should serve as a sharp warning. The worst part is it all sounds so feasible and workable when salespeople (high or low pressure) selling dating services pitch a person who has been cut-off from a relationship. That person doesn’t get to talk, prior to paying his money, to hundreds of other single people who have previously invested money in the hopeful promises of meeting someone great. I have talked to thousands in my classes and the overwhelming majority’s response regarding dating services has been that they got little or nothing for a large amount of money, and those reports are over a period of time and a large number of dating services.

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But I won’t date anyone who smokes, and at least 36% smoke. Now we are down to 23. Twenty percent of the 45 women left insist on someone who is a “professional, has a college degree, or is financially secure.” I might come close, but do not make it on any of these. Now we are down to 24 women remaining out of the thousand original members. I had two restrictions, weight and smoking, they had one. Add any more restrictions on either side and we are down further. If we weed out anymore I will soon be down to ten left. I should pay hundreds of dollars to have the possibility of meeting ten women?

Unfortunately, a large percentage of the people who get into the dating online service business are not well-intentioned, further increasing the probability of getting little or nothing for the money.

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This entry was posted on Thursday, June 24th, 2010 at 11:40 am and is filed under adult dating.

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